deliciously happy and deliriously in love
Hi! I'm Marley, Hubby is the 'Me', and this is a little personal love blog about us.
Hope you enjoy the ride.

Thursday, September 26, 2013

9-21-13 The Day I CONQUERED the Road

9-21-13 Is the day I GOT OVER MY FEAR of driving.

223 miles, 3 hrs and 10 minutes

It wasn't so bad. 

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You may go, really that's nothing, I've driven 123456789 miles before. Well honey, if you know me the furthest I've EVER driven is down the street and back! 

OK- maybe not that bad but I am the typical ASIAN FEMALE DRIVER. I do not like to go on highways and if I possible I would take the LONGESTTTTT local route just to avoid it. 

The furthest I've ever driven in my whole life non-stop is 20 miles and even then, I get sleepy. 

Even my BEST FRIEND did not believe me.

Bestie: Yea right, I don't believe you.
Me: I am SO SERIOUS! I am at home and I drove by myself.
Bestie: TAKE A PICTURE OF YOUR CAR RIGHT NOW and text it to me.
Me: -_______- 

I ain't going to lie, when I made it within 100 miles of being away from home, I breathe a sign of relief because if anything happens AAA will tow your car within 100 miles for free!


So HOW
 after 4 years of being in VT
did I FINALLY get the nerve to go the distance NON-STOP to home? 

Because I miss my Mister :( 

I guess LOVE does Conquer All. Especially the fear of driving. 


Thanks babe.
P.S. It did backfire. Now he won't have to pick me up to help drive my car back home....  I have to do it by myself. >.<

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Friday, September 20, 2013

Proposal Video

As I am typing this, my hands are literally shaking. My whole body is shaking. I just remember that day so vividly and having this video totally reminded me how nervous I was, confused, excited, and most importantly how much I love this man. I love him so much. 

CLICK HERE to watch.

Click Here for Proposal Post.


Thank you to one of our dear friends Pete for making the video.
For more of his work: Here is his youtube channel.
WARNING: Sorry for the many OMG..My brain was not processing clearly. My mind was going everywhere, it felt like I wasn't in my body. I was too overjoyed to cry....but did so- 3 days later when it hit me... hahah
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Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Location, Location, Location: Tips on choosing a wedding venue.

FACT
When you mention the word 'wedding' versus a retirement or birthday party, the price automatically jumps up.

1. Take the time to think outside the box and find locations that are atypical to weddings which is a cost saver if you are not too picky about what the place looks like.  

2. Make a list will help break down what you really want versus what you don't really need. 

3. For us, we wanted the Chinese food but not the Chinese banquet hall. If it wasn't for that, we would just do a Chinatown wedding. 

Our List of non-negotiable:
Ability to have Open Bar/outside liquor ( always a hit for the guests)
Amount of guests it could fit (150-200)
Outside catering
Close to Boston (within 20 miles)
Have parking or garages available

With this list, it came down to 6 locations. I will share my list with you so that if you are interested you can find them in your local area.
Every location is different but you can see the price differences in each one. 

Community Center
such as ELKS/American Legion Post

Pros:
- Full kitchen where the cater can do everything.
- Super affordable rental- Only $550 for 5 hours and included all the chairs/tables.

Cons:
- Too tight of a space and the ceilings were not high enough for our entrance
- Open Bar was only possible if we use their bartender ( $40) plus cost of drinks, which there was no way to really track it and could overcharge us.
- Total privacy would not be possible because they can't close the bar to the community veterans which would make for some awkwardness or party crashers.

Elks Lodge
American Legion Post

Nightclub

Room Rental: 5000-7500/4 hours. 1000/additional hour.
Pros:
- They have a stage so if you want some separation for the bride/groom and dinner guests or if you want performances at your wedding. 
- Full DJ Booth, full sound and lighting system, and sound system available. 
Cons:
- Since it is a nightclub, they will definitely kick your party out by 10/11pm since they have to prepare for the clubbers.
In all honestly I felt that if we did get married at a nightclub, our friends would NOT be surprised. Especially since that is how we first met. 
Royale

Hotel

Hotels can be pricey! But not only are you paying for atmosphere but also the service. Most all of these places includes a day of coordinator or some sort of event planner that helps you with your day so you don't have to worry. 
For Boston Park Plaza Hotel, it's expensive, it's beautiful and it best represents Boston- Sophisticated, Elegant, Luxurious. Floor to ceiling windows, ballrooms, crystal chandeliers, and white glove service!
Room for up to 250+ guests
Cost can be anywhere between $15,000- 30,000.
We said no because the costs of bartenders and guests were around $13,000.  
Boston Park Plaza Hotel
I put the library because my friends recently got married here and it's a really beautiful venue! The pricing is similar to hotel prices especially since you have to go through a specific catering company. 

Library
Image by henryandmac
Image by shangchenphoto

Function Space

(e.g. Spring Step, Cyclorama, Art Studio
These are the types of places that you wouldn't think to get married in but are actually quite popular due to price and just out of the box locations. Rentals for the location is not too bad, can range about $500-1,000/hr. Keep in mind the location may not have items such as chairs, tables, plates, etc which can increase your budget especially if you have to rent items. 
For some function spaces, there is an anything goes policy so you could get away with some things that a hotel may not let you get away with ( AS LONG AS ITS LEGAL!). 
Cyclorama
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Spring Step


Good luck in finding your location :) 
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