Moon Yut: The 30 day Birthday

Our Little King is already 1 month old!

To celebrate we are planned a Moon Yut celebration also known as a Red Egg and Ginger Party.  Traditionally, the reason why we celebrate the one month was due to the high infant mortality rate in China before the 1900s. After the one month, it is safe to say that the child will live. This is also a time to reintroduce the mother after her resting period (see my recovery period post).
 At the Moon Yut, guests attending usually bring gifts of lucky money in red envelopes. As a thank you, the baby's parents give red eggs and ginger as gifts to the guests hence the name. The eggs are important because they represent renewal of life and fertility. Its round shape means harmony and happiness in life. The egg is dyed red because the color means good fortune and prosperity.This egg is also rubbed on the baby's forehead.\

The baby's head is usually shaved during the feast. The girls head is shaved before the image of the 'Mother'-the goddess of Children and the boys head is shaved before the ancestral table. This is to mark the point of the child's independent existence. 
A child's formal name is picked out by grandparents. This is not announced until the one month mark.   Instead of shaving and rubbing his head at the restaurant, we did these traditions at home. My mom made a set up of sugar cane, two boiled eggs, and rice. The egg and rice was rubbed across his forehead and my mom fed him a bit of sugar cane. They also snipped a piece of his hair and was given red envelopes.

He didn't really enjoy the head on his head but he did like the sugar cane and red envelopes!

My Birth Story

2:45am

I shot up and ran to the bathroom. I had intense stomach cramps. I had Chipotle for dinner so I thought it may have been the cheese or sour cream from my burrito bowl.  In the back of my mind I did think 'Maybe I am in labor' but today is my due date and babies are never born on their due date. I still kept track of my stomach cramps and the pain was coming every 5 minutes, lasting about a minute each time. From birthing class, they tell you that that is the time you should be going to the hospital.  

Instead of listening to reason, I took a shower and washed my hair. 

The hot shower made me feel a bit better. Afterwards I blowdryed my hair and then went to bed. 

3:30am

Shot right back up and ran to the bathroom. I was literally bearing down against the bathroom sink. The mister woke up and found me on the bathroom huffing and puffing. 

'ARE YOU IN LABOR???' He asked

My contractions were now 3 minutes apart and still lasting about a minute long. 

That 10 minute car ride was the longest 10 minutes. Contractions were so painful- like you had bad sushi and couldn't get off the toilet all night pain. I was holding his hand the whole ride there and yelled at him for slowing down when it was a yellow light. He later told the nurse he didn't know I was that strong. 

Conversation on the way to the hospital:

 Me: You know when we go running and you tell me that I'm doing a great job and to keep running?

Hubby: Yes.

Me: And I tell you to shut up because it's distracting? Well, SHUT UP!

4:00am

After entering in through the ER entrance, the nurse Christine from labor and delivery came to pick me up with a wheelchair. I kept grunting and flailing in pain. After checking me thoroughly I was 6 cm dilated. 

Here is a visual aid:

Basically, an object the size of a watermelon comes out of that 10cm hole so 

YES I GOT THE EPIDURAL!!!! 

Receiving it didn't hurt as much as I imagined it to. The pain in my stomach subsided but I could still feel the pain waist down. I felt a little cheated because my sister told me I wouldn't be able to walk or feel my legs. Well, I was able to feel everything below. 

Me: It just feels like I need to poop.

Nurse: Well this is going to be the biggest poop of your life

Time went by so fast. 

I went from 6cm to 7cm to 8 cm within an hour. 

There was a pressure to push so my nurse asked the doctor to break my water. 

5:35am

Pushing didn't hurt as much as the contractions, it was more exhausting because your breathing each time you have the pressure to push. 

Nurse: "Don't scream. Try to breathe in through your nose and out through the mouth' 

Me: "BUT I CAN'T HELP IT!!!!" You just want to grunt it out. 

6:00am

The doctor comes to you when it is go time. Before then it is all nurses. The doctor mentioned that the baby had a lot of hair and I'm like how do you know?

They brought out a mirror for me to see. It was amazing.  I used it as a tool to help me push because when they tell you how great your doing,  you can't tell how far along you are. I could see the head 

come out each time I pushed and all that hair on its head!

At one point I couldn't push because I was so tired I asked them to take the baby out but it hadn't 

come out far enough. 'Can you push it back in?????' The last final pushes were the hardest but when 

it happened I heard the baby wail so loud.

6:19am

It's a boy!

He was so teeny tiny but I loved him so much. And of course the husband cut the umbilical cord.

I feel very lucky to have created this handsome little man with few problems. No 22 hour labor, no hemorrhoids... just a very healthy baby boy.

Nurse: 'Next time you have a baby, come at the 3rd contraction.' 

And that my friends is our birth story. 

Can't wait to watch him grow up. 

Week 36

Saw the doctor today and everything is going well. Baby's heart beat is 140 bpm and sounds normal. It's been kicking like crazy making it feel tight in certain areas. It did feel painful this morning like the baby is hitting my hip bone. The doctor felt around and mentioned that it is very low and its head is settled down there= head first, no breaching! Love that everything has been uneventful so far. Uneventful is good especially when carrying a baby.

WEEK 36

CRAVING Sweets! Georgetown Cupcakes and Ice cream. 

DRINKING Kung Fu tea Boba- Signature White Gourd Tea is currently my favorite

SLEEPING I nap and still get tired afterwards. I can sleep throughout the night but I always wake up at 6am to pee. 

WEARING 

I have succumb to wearing slippers. Flats are too uncomfortable especially since my edema is just going over the top. It started traveling from my feet now to my hands while I was working. The sensation is numbing and feels hot. I told my husband and this is how the conversation ended.

I was small during the first and semester trimester but recently gain a bit of weight. It really is true, you gain 1 to 1 and 1/2 lb a week in the last month.

FEELING tired and energetic. Does that make sense? Yesterday I was willing to walk 1/2 mile to get cupcakes when normally I can't walk a block down to mail out thank you cards without having to pee.

LOVING the foot and back rubs the mister gives me at the end of the day. It's nice to just hang out and cherish the moments of just us two. 

I am also loving that my belly can multitask as a table.

Week 35: The Home Stretch

In case you haven't heard... 

WE ARE HAVING A BABY!!! Time goes by so quickly. It seemed like yesterday that I just peed on that darn stick. Instead of having to wait those horrible 2 minutes of am I or aren't, that stick changed color instantly confirming I was SUPER pregnant. 
Are we ready?  I have no idea. How can we be ready. We are so happy and excited but it's scary to think that we will be taking care of a living breathing human being. When I sit down and actually think about it, there is an overwhelming feeling of love. I can't wait to meet this miniature version of what we created.    The Mister has organized and rearranged our house to make it baby friendly. We have already set up the high chair, car seat, stroller, crib, and the diaper changing station. The toys that BabyT won't even get to play with until its a few months old is set up! Everything has its place that when we had a guest come visit, they asked if we had another child around.  *** WEEK 35 CRAVING Cereal and Milk! Sort of just want to eat everything in my path right now DRINKING Starbucks Caramel Apple Cider, 'tis the season! WATCHING Mister and I have been youtubing everything from how to care for a baby, how to bathe a baby, how to swaddle. What the heck is the difference between Desitin, Vaseline, and baby wipes- who knows.  This video made us laugh because 1) this is the worst tip ever and 2) I think there is sometime as too much rash creme. Skip to 1:00

SLEEPING I know your not suppose to stop drinking water but after drinking half a cup of water before bed, I have to get up 3-4 times to pee. Sleeping is hard from the tossing and turning which seemed easier in the early trimester is now difficult because its just very hard to breath. I feel like i'm running a marathon just from the exertion of turning. 

WEARING 

*Leggings! Uniqlo came to my hometown at a perfect time and opened up 3-4 new locations, their leggings are a bit thicker so it looks like work pants ( or at least I hope it does to my boss). Makes me sad though because I can't fit into my old jeans, even my pajamas pants are too tight!

*Coobie Bra. Mannnn my friend recommended them and that is all I am wearing right now because it's stretchy and comfortable and my boobs are growing so basically I can't fit into anything else. 

FEELING tired. A month ago my feet started to swell up and it is NOT PRETTY! When I wake up in the morning it feels funny to walk because of that pressure. I can't fit any of my flats so that bums me out. 

LOVING that it is so close to the end but also scared.